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February . . . And I thank ya verrry much for visiting my site this month. Thank You! Question for ya; “How long can you survive without receiving a Thank you? I mean how many days; hours, minutes can you actually go without anyone telling you “thank you? The words meaning are ~ THANK; (transitive verb) 1. express gratitude. YOU; (pronoun) 1. person being addressed. We may hear those two words daily but not directed at you. How long can you go without anyone saying those few words to you? I know personally, they are my hardest word to say because of my speech impediment. The beginning ‘t’ is extremely hard for me to pronounce. A real tongue twister to say for me, but I do and will continue to struggle to get them out. Those two words I never try to avoid, but yet, my hardest to say verbally. Sometimes I can’t get it out and a person(s) will walk away thinking whatever, after they have just helped me with something very trying. But I do stutter it out. So! We’re back to how long can you survive with a Thank You? Not asking how long you can go without saying it to anyone ~ but ~ someone saying it you? How do you feel when you realize that you’d gone all day and no one has thank you for anything. Does a weight of neglect bounce on your shoulders realizing the fact NO ONE offer you those words and you’ve been saying it to others all day. Should you feel a little not needed or ignored as a good person. . . It’s normal to. I probably would feel that way too if it continued to happen to me. So, how long can you? You probably now have turned the question back to me, “How long can I survive without a Thank You? Well, my answer would be until the next one. No matter how long it may take. I believe in my goodness that I have worked to learn and grew understand.. ‘Thank you’ very important two words; do not fool yourself into thinking they are not. Words of expressions are hard for some and some just refuse to express feelings to anyone. To judge yourself by the lack of someone not giving you gratitude when it has been earned sometime will lead us toward a let down. Bad is like good, is sometime cannot be seen at first until much later. Same with good, it cannot be seen or recognized for what it is until much further down the road. A word of praise directed at us is really a beautiful thing. They encouraged, build up esteem. And that is a good thing. Just remember without words you still have YOU. The beautiful mind, the wonderful person (or what I call, being the best person possible at that time). Words are kinda like adjectives when applied to people. Some people use them a lot and some hardly do. Should you have to live without a thank you for a day or two ~ the good adjectives that will come ~ you keep growing because you’re still a person and probably with a good heart and mind. The thank you(s) just add more polish to our day. And true, not everyone is sure of themselves until they pinch their skin to feel and remember that they do occupy that space they are standing on. And as I always say, “AND ON THAT NOTE;” we will close in saying words can never truly out do the beauty of the heart’s desire. Which is to love; and there never will be words to totally express that in full. Only our positive action toward one another can do that ~ and for that, I thank you for being the best person you can possible at any time. Be Well, Citizens ~ | |
